I had this convo with Sham yesterday evening, about being in a friendship and the things that so-called friends did to me. I hope I didnt act the same way. It was a painstaking experience as usual the backstabbing, sindir menyindir, saying hurtful things intentionally and all sorts of ugly treatment. The root to these problems? Jealously, among other things. It is not really obvious at first but it slowly emerges like a pimple - heee bad analogy. Ke jiwa bah, jelesnya atu~
All I can do is to avoid these kind of people, I'm pretty good at it. All I did was just runaway because I dont want to be hurt and I dont want to go through it. Would it help if we talked about it? Would it help if I told them that I'm hurt? Would it help if I tolerated? Would it help just to keep quiet? If I can't avoid them, I'll just stay as quiet as possible. Hence, silence is golden. Being silent is somewhat a protection for me from unkind words. And being silent will protect others from being hurt. Works like a charm.
I may not have many friends but I am bloody thankful to have just a handful of them. I think they are worthy to keep. I just hope they feel the same way too.
All I can do is to avoid these kind of people, I'm pretty good at it. All I did was just runaway because I dont want to be hurt and I dont want to go through it. Would it help if we talked about it? Would it help if I told them that I'm hurt? Would it help if I tolerated? Would it help just to keep quiet? If I can't avoid them, I'll just stay as quiet as possible. Hence, silence is golden. Being silent is somewhat a protection for me from unkind words. And being silent will protect others from being hurt. Works like a charm.
I may not have many friends but I am bloody thankful to have just a handful of them. I think they are worthy to keep. I just hope they feel the same way too.
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